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THE THINGS MEN DO..

Some men cannot handle the achievements of their wives.

When they open a business for their wives, they breathe hot air down the necks of their wives. They become detectives overnight watching every facial expression and every delicate steps taken.

The carefree trot of the wives become measured steps because every plausible meanings would be attached to every step or word spoken. They turn themselves to demigods that must be worshipped.  At the slightest provocation, they lock up the business and throw the keys into the abyss.

Another set of husbands’ mission is to cripple their wives business. The wives’ business becomes ATM. They underhandedly render the business epileptic. They collect every profit and eat into the capital like worms. If there is any slightest resistance or refusal by their wives to allow them cripple the business through unnecessary demands, they become town criers. They spread lies that their wives have become arrogant because of wealth.

Another set of husbands would tell their wives to resign from their promising jobs. They issue threats that wives must choose between the marriage and the job. Some women have have been able to make right decisions suitable to them. Some women make wrong decisions because of societal prejudiced pressure. When they know they have baggage, knowing that their families are dependable upon their monthly wages, no one would wear them a thinking cap.

Some men meet their wives on the job. They then turn around to ask the wife to resign. Failure to resign is to make life unbearable for them.

How many fathers would invest hugely on their daughters and chew kolanut of understanding when such daughters are just at home doing nothing because their husbands forbade them to work?

Some would say the woman could trade or do something by the side. Why are you not doing something by the side? It is not everyone who has the skill in trading. You sit in the office enjoying your work but expect a lawyer or doctor to trade?

Except by one’s own decisions to take up something one loves to do, it would be an arduous task to the zenith.

A man who does not want his wife to work should give commensurable allowance or pay her a salary. Period!

Men puliiizzz allow women to excel, to succeed, do not always issue threats…. Can you feed your wives and the family?

Do not turn around later to see your wives and families as pests

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