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AGE IS INDEED A BARRIER.

Ladies should know this before taking a brash misty eyed leap into the murky waters of matrimony or relationship. I would rather be married to a wise grumpy old man with a package of medicum peace than a silly younger man bereft of senses and constant dramas.

 

Marriage is not a ping pong table with players with disconcerting or discordant attributes. Except you are led by God, ladies, don’t ever believe you can succeed in a marriage with a younger man. The odds would definitely be against you if you do.

 

The maturity of the woman is like a decade in comparison to the man. The relationship with a younger man is like a very beautiful and neatly packed parcel but inside is the bundle of promising problems. When you refuse to understand this and hinge arguments on being obsolete and old school expect the baggage of problems of your unwise decision.

 

The younger man wants to hang out with his homeboys often. Can you cope with this? His age and natural developmental stage permits this. While he is out, you are homemaking.

The respect you get is commensurate with the respect of his age. How are you going to handle the disrespect? How would you handle his pranks? Its a whole circle.

Look before you leap the fact that it worked for Alice does not mean it would work for Betty. Don’t expect to cage him because he must certainly act his age which would not be at par with yours.

Now except by Divine leading, do not attempt to copy what another lady has done. If God says you could marry a younger man, he would give you the corresponding grace to cope otherwise, you would have a hell of bundle of sticks hibernating bees to cope with without piercing other people’s ear drums with your baggage of complaints. Hehehehe. While if you have  similar story to share, we are ready to post. If you want to write anonymously, we would respect your confidentiality.

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